Wedding Week - Part 4
And of course some mini pretzels to snack on before the reception began.
While our guests enjoyed beer and pretzels and a tour of the museum, Herr J and I stopped at our hotel to change into our Bavarian party clothes.
Our bartender gets into the spirit, thanks to some dirndl and lederhosen aprons Herr J found online.
However, my favorite party favor he found online was the Maβ coozy, lederhosen style. (Luckily he saved one for me, and it took a trip to Oktoberfest this year)
Again, Sara, our awesome florist somehow divined from my explanations and random Pinterest ideas exactly what I envisioned for simple centerpieces... of course in Maβ glasses.
Luckily the lebkuchenherzen we had shipped over arrived at the last minute and we were able to put them out on the table as decorations and more fun Bavarian things to take home.
The father of the bride and ushers.
Two of my favorite things about the room were the two fireplaces on each end, and the gorgeous caribbean blue ceiling that you can see in the mirror.
And one of the moment's we'd been eagerly awaiting....the cake. Again, another example of a wonderful vendor who was able to create exactly what we wanted from what I'm sure was a very poor description. If anyone in the Charleston area needs a cake (birthday, wedding, otherwise), I highly recommend our baker Tammy at Cakes by Kasarda... especially the "moist chocolate" flavor. If you're getting married in the area, it's worth a visit to sample her cakes. We were blown away by the taste and by the presentation. This was my first cake tasting ever, though Herr J had been with friends and to the wedding expo with his brother. So, when she brought out little slices of several types of cake, and then a plate of scoops of several frostings, and yet another plate of several fillings....well, I thought that was the normal way cake tasting went and was pretty excited for the next one. Though I did think it would be hard to top her cake - at least 3 flavors were the best example of that flavor cake I've ever tasted.
A toast by the best man...
... and the maid of honor. We realized with a laugh when they signed the marriage book as witnesses for us that we chose well...between the two of them, we have attorneys licensed to practice in at least 3 states.
And then it was time for the dances. First, father and daughter.
And then our first dance together.
And we did have a sausage and sauerkraut bar. They found some great bratwurst and served it on a bun with mustard or as currywurst. And did a realy good job with the sauerkraut. We also had some green asparagus, rice pilaf, and baked apples. We weren't sure how it would work, but Cru Catering did a fantastic job. They also managed to serve incredibly tender steak, which is always a big risk to cook for such a large party.
I think we should have practiced cutting the cake - I had no idea it would be so difficult to get the slice out of there!
One thing that was difficult to find in Germany for an American wedding was a cake cutter. I'm not well versed enough in German weddings to know if a ceremonial cake cutter isn't normally used, or if the cutting of the cake just isn't a big thing (or the cake itself). In any event, when we described to a sales lady at a big kitchen store what we were looking for, she said they didn't carry anything like that, but they did have a ceremonial knife for cutting stollen. Dresdner stollen, to be precise. We figured it was pretty cool and sword-looking and we could combine another German state into the mix, so why not?
We had the chance to catch up with family and friends, some of whom we hadn't seen in too long. And to learn something new about some....for example that our cousins knew every song and every dance....we were impressed!
A little more dancing before the night ended.
....but luckily arrived the morning of the wedding!
After the reception ended, we went up to the rooftop of the Vendue Inn for a drink with friends.
I've always been pretty terrible at air hockey, but I think getting married changed that. Best air hockey performance of my life!
dining on our favorite zwiebelrostbraten!
A huge thanks to all of our family and friends who travelled to celebrate with us, and to all of our amazing vendors who made this work for two crazy people trying to arrange a wedding by phone and internet. And to our wonderful pastor who was willing to work outside the box and did many of our pre-wedding counseling sessions by Skype. With everyone's help, we had our dream wedding!